50+ Gift Ideas for Partners or Metas

Over 50 ideas for your polyamorours loved ones, share the love this holiday season

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December 1, 2023
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50+ NonMonogamous Gift ideas

We don't want the list of choices to seem to overwhelming, or for you to feel like you have to settle for just one thing or category, so we've broken up this epic list of 50 gift ideas with over 60 individual items that would be perfect for any non-monogamous person into the nine different buying guides that we've been dropping on our site since Polyamory Day on November 23rd.

Check them out below, for details of all the ideas suggested or just browse the full list of over 60 different individual items.

5 Perfect Gifts For The Whole Polycule

When it comes to group gift ideas these items are sure to please the entire polycule. You could practicing Solo-poly, a new to poly couple, or be a part of a big constellation of Vs and Ws, with lots of metas and hinges, but these gifts are all items that can be shared.

  1. Books on Consensual NonMongoamy
  2. Giant Huge Oversized Blanket 120 x 120 inches (10'x10')
  3. Fern & Soul Picnic Backpack for 4 with blanket
  4. Portable 6-Seater Folding Bench
  5. Kusini Electric Fondue Pot Gift Set

10 Gifts for Partners or Metas with Any Body

It doesn't matter what pronouns your shopping for, because these gender neutral gifts are designed to please a person with any body. While we can't guarantee that partners or metas who identify outside of the human continuum would enjoy these gifts, they should be wonderful suggestions for any one inhabiting human form.

  1. No-mess Toenail Clipper, Catches Clippings
  2. Ultra Aero Slant Tip Tweezer
  3. Ditind Cupping Therapy Set, 18 Pcs Cupping Set
  4. Burt's Bees 6 Stocking Stuffers Classics Set or Burt's Bees 6pc Tips & Toes Skincare Set
  5. Spiderman Eye Massager with Heat
  6. Socks with Pride
  7. Theragun G3 Percussive Therapy Device
  8. Shower Steamer Set, 16 Pieces, 8 Scents
  9. Ballsy B2 Body Trimmer
  10. Unicorn Snot Holographic Body Glitter Gel

6 Gift Ideas for the non-monogamous home

Since Bedroom & Kitchen Table is it's very own category on our site, we had to make a list of just the absolute best gifts for the non-monogamous home. While these might also be great for any home, they were specially selected to have open relationship entertainment value, because we know you want your space to impress all of your partners.

  1. CNM Throw Pillows
  2. Pride Flags
  3. Rossetta Star Projector, Galaxy Projector for Bedroom
  4. #LOVE Scented Candle Set, 4 pack
  5. Rainfall & Handheld Shower Combo
  6. Stained Glass Window Privacy Film

6 Gift Ideas for your Kitchen (table)

Again since Bedroom & Kitchen Table already has its own category, it would only make sense for us to focus exclusively on the kitchen, at least for a moment. After all, isn't the way to a person's heart thru their stomach? This list is especially for the home chefs and loved ones who keep you full of love and tasty treats.

  1. Cuisinart Pizza Stone 3-Piece Pizza Grilling Set
  2. 12oz Stainless Steel Insulated Wine Tumbler with Lid and Straw- 6 Piece set
  3. Set of 12 Rainbow 11 oz Drinking Glasses
  4. Ball Preserving Starter Kit
  5. Ninja Foodi NeverStick 10-Piece Cookware Set
  6. PHILIPS 3000 Series Air Fryer

3 Perfect Gift Ideas For Your Polycule’s Bartender

We know who you have to thank for keeping your CNM spirits bright, and if you're looking for a an extra special something for a home bartender, this short gift list of items perfect for bartenders and cocktail enthusiasts should give you some cheerful ideas.

  1. Spooky Bat Wine Opener
  2. 24-Piece Cocktail Shaker Set
  3. Cocktail Smoker Kit

5 Gifts to keep your Non-Mono Coffee & Tea Lovers Caffeinated

Keeping up with a polyamorous calendar is no small feat, so we made a list to help you make sure that your partners and metas stay properly caffeinated this holiday season. Stay up for all the parties, dates, and overnights with these suggestions for the Coffee & Tea lovers in your life.

  1. Stash Tea Bags Sampler Gift Box Assortment
  2. Nextmug - Temperature-Controlled, Self-Heating Coffee Mug
  3. Zulay Milk Frother Wand Drink Mixer
  4. Monin Gourmet Coffee Flavorings Collection
  5. HyperChiller Iced Coffee - Ready in 60 sec - Beverage Cooler

6 Geeky Gift Ideas For Your Tech-y Partners & Metas

More than just sharing their streaming subscriptions, your tech-y or geeky polycule members don't want to be left feeling disconnected. This list of gadget-y ideas for the tech gadget-y folx in your poly sphere will hopefully satisfy even the most discerning geeks or nerds.

  1. Geek Out Game
  2. Power Strip Tower 20W USB C Surge Protector & Charging Station
  3. Twin Bluetooth Wireless Speaker Set
  4. Anker Nano Power Bank Portable Charger
  5. Govee TV Backlight 3 Lite Sync for 55-65 Inch TVs
  6. Alyfini Portable USB Makeup Brush Cleaner

6 Sexy-time Gifts

We hear so much about how poly is just about sex, which of course it's not, it's also about feelings, and commitments, and boundaries... but this list... well it IS just about the seggs. These sexy gift ideas are NSFW suggestions that you probably want to save for your most intimate open relationships.

  1. Waterproof Blankets: Waterproof Reversible Blanket Furniture Protector, X-Large (85" x 57")  - OR - Reversible Fleece Waterproof Throw Blanket - 30x40-Inch - OR - Liberator Moisture Proof Sensual Throw Blanket (72x54 Inch)
  2. Variety pack of condoms such as ONE Condoms Mixed Pleasures Variety Adventure Latex Condom 100 Pack
  3. Book on Sex Positions: Illustrated With Pictures
  4. Locking adult toy boxes: Vaultz Storage Lock Box - 6.5 x 23 x 13.5 Inch - OR - Vaultz Portable File Box with Handle - 15 x 14 x 17 
  5. Toy travel & storage bags such as 3 Sizes (6 Pcs) Adult Toy Storage & Travel Drawstring Bags
  6. Sex furniture: Liberator Kama Sutra Chaise - Sensual Lounge Chair - OR - Liberator Esse Chaise with Cuff Kit 

3 Silly Gifts Just For Fun

To top it all off, because we wanted to add just a little more creative outlet and expression, this final short list of 3 silly gifts that are just fun ideas for any non-monogamous person, will hopefully make you and your loved one smile, when they unwrap a fun gift that's designed to just bring them unadulterated joy.

  1. Make your own unicorn kit - FFKHYCA Crochet Kit for Beginners - OR - Lewhoo Crochet Kit for Beginners - OR - Apexillio Purple Pink-Unicorn Learn to Crochet Kit for Beginners - OR - Luna the Unicorn - Beginner Crochet Kit - OR - Crochetta Jumbo 3 Unicorn Family Crochet Kit for Beginners
  2. Adult activity books - POLYAMORY: An Adult Coloring Book - OR - Color Me Kinky: NSFW Adult Coloring & Activity Book - OR - The Stoner Babes Coloring Book - OR - Find The Hidden Penises Adult Activity & Coloring Book - OR - The Vagina Coloring Book
  3. Cute travel pouch - Velociraptor Feed Me and Tell Me I'm Pretty Dinosaur Funny Makeup Cosmetic Bag

All together that's over 60 individual items!

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