3 Perfect Gift Ideas For Your Polycule’s Bartender

Last Updated:
November 28, 2023

Gifts For Home Bartender

When it comes to keeping you and your partners in good spirits, we know that home bartenders really spread the love. That’s why these 3 holiday gift ideas for your polycule’s favorite bartender were selected to delight and surprise those who keep the love flowing. 

3 Best Gifts for A Bartender

We bring you Vino, the Bat! because we know that a lot a lot of folx practicing CNM also love spooky things. Treat yourself to a glass of wine or two, for this bat is here as your trusty corkscrew. Makes a great gift for (one of) the goth(s) in your polycule.


  • It's a BAT, need we say more?


  • No cons, it's just adorable

Includes 1 cocktail smoker chimney, 1 torch lighter - (No Butane), 2 stainless steel filters, hickory chips - 20g, apple chips - 20g, cherry chips - 20g, pear chips - 20g.


  • Provides a unique sensory experience with increased taste complexity, enhanced olfactory experience, and improved visual experience.
  • Includes a variety of high-quality wood chips made from natural fruit trees, guaranteeing an authentic smoky flavor.
  • It is easy to use for both beginners and professionals.
  • Can be used for a variety of drinks and foods, making it a versatile and convenient tool.


  • Butane not included

24-Piece set of high quality bartending accessories. Includes recipes booklet, cocktail shaker and essential bar tools. Time to share a drink with the bartender in your polycule!


  • High quality materials: abrasion resistance and rust proof materials.
  • Complete bartender kit with stand for easy storage of all the included tools
  • Available in a variety of colors


  • Alcohol not included, must be purchased separately

Why are these great presents for a bartender?

Make this holiday season unforgettable for your non-monogamous mixologist by giving them one of these unique and memorable items. Whether it's the Spooky Bat Wine Opener, the 24-Piece Cocktail Shaker Set, or the SIMOEFFI Cocktail Smoker Kit with Torch & 4 Flavors Wood Smoker Chips, or all 3, these gifts are sure to bring joy and excitement to any polyamorous kitchen table. 

#1 Spooky Bat Wine Opener

While some of you might be thinking that this looks more like a Halloween decoration than a possible Christmas gift, we know that there’s a lot of overlap between the spooky kids and the practice of nonmonogamy, and since many of us in the CNM community lean a little goth, we really love this adorable Spooky Bat Wine Opener all year round. 

Meet Vino, the bat - and treat yourself to a glass of wine or two, with this unique and stylish opener which is perfect for the non-monogamous wine lover in your life. With both a corkscrew for wine and bottle opener for beer and other beverages, Vino’s sleek design and easy-to-use functionality will impress any wine enthusiast. And its spooky bat shape adds a touch of fun to any gathering. Whether they're hosting a dinner party with their polyamorous family or enjoying a quiet evening at home with their partners, the Spooky Bat Wine Opener is sure to please. Give the gift of effortless wine & bottle opening and add a little magic to their polyamorous kitchen table.

#2 The 24-Piece Cocktail Shaker Set

Elevate your non-monogamous loved one’s cocktail game with this 24-Piece Cocktail Shaker Set. A comprehensive bartender kit with accessories, it is perfect for those who enjoy mixing drinks and experimenting with flavors. Whether they're a traid/throuple, quad, or simply a group of friends who love to entertain, this set has everything they need to create delicious and impressive cocktails. From shakers and strainers to jiggers and muddlers, this kit has it all. Help them take their mixology skills to the next level and be the polyamorous life of the party.

Available in a variety of finishes and complete with a convenient storage stand which is also available in a variety of colors, this set even includes a recipes booklet in addition to all of the bar tools. Pick the exact style to match their home, and they will never worry about finding their cocktail shaker or accessories, ever again. 

#3 Cocktail Smoker Kit

For the non-monogamous whiskey connoisseur in your life, this SIMOEFFI Cocktail Smoker Kit with Torch & 4 Flavors Wood Smoker Chips can not be beat. This kit includes a smoker box and four different flavor wood smoker chips, allowing them to infuse their favorite bourbon or whiskey drinks with a smoky twist. 

Whether they're enjoying a quiet night in with their partner or partners or hosting a cocktail party for their polyamorous community, this kit will help them add a unique and sophisticated touch to their drinks. 

Not just for whiskey or bourbon, the SIMOEFFI Cocktail Smoker Kit with Torch is also suitable for cheese, desserts, dried fruit or meat. It’s the perfect size to smoke the contents of cups, glasses or small bowls, and includes 1 cocktail smoker chimney, 1 handheld torch, 2 stainless steel filters, and 4 different flavors of wood chips. Enjoy the flavors and aromas of hickory chips, apple chips, cherry chips, or pear chips, all made from natural fruit trees. Guaranteed to deliver authentic smoky flavor; give the gift of a memorable wood smoker experience and help them impress their poly kitchen table guests with this one-of-a-kind cocktail smoker kit.

Gifts For The Bartender Enthusiast

Do you have suggestions for more or better gifts for a polyamorous bartender? We’d love to hear your stories, and for you to share with us the items that change your life and make your non-monogamous journey more pleasurable.

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