6 Sexy-time Gifts

Last Updated:
November 30, 2023

6 Sexy-time Gift Ideas

Looking for the sexiest gifts for your polyamorous loved ones? We have curated a collection of gift ideas designed specifically for the polyamorous community. Whether they’re – solo-poly, a couple, a throuple, a triad, or a quad, or some other constellation – we have something to enhance your intimate experiences and bring you closer together. 

Each item was carefully selected to enhance relationships, promote safety, and create unforgettable experiences. If you’re looking for something a little more “safe for work” then we’d like to suggest that you check out 10 Gifts for Partners or Metas with Any Body which is full of both gender-neutral and non-sexual ideas, but if you are looking for something to make your loved ones feel truly sexy, then this list of 6 sexy poly gift ideas is for you. 

Polyamory Gift Ideas

The moisture-proof sensual blanket is made of soft microvelvet material, has a water-resistant inner layer, is discreet for travel, machine washable, and comes with a 1-year warranty.


  • Keeps bedding dry during wet activities.
  • Double-sided with soft plush micro-velvet on both sides.
  • Machine washable for easy cleaning.
  • Not a waterproof dog blanket


  • On the fancier-side, but also on the pricier-side of available waterproof blanket options.

This waterproof blanket is reversible, machine washable, and protects furniture from liquids and stains.


  • Reversible design with plush and fuzzy sides for comfort.
  • Protects furniture from wet activities.
  • Machine washable for easy cleaning.


  • We won't tell anyone it's a dog blanket if you don't.

This triple-layered blanket is waterproof, protects furniture, and provides warmth and comfort.


  • X-Large 85" x 57" size and available in four additional sizes.
  • Triple layer design for comfort, warmth, and waterproof protection.
  • Easy to clean: machine wash on gentle cycle.


  • We won't tell anyone it's a dog blanket if you don't.

100 Pack contains styles: Super Sensitive (50% more lube), Glowing Pleasures (glow in the dark condoms), Super Studs (textured for pleasure), Tattoo Touch (ribbed for sensations), FlavorWaves (unique flavored condoms), and Vanish Hyperthin (thin and extra lubricated).


  • Lubricated
  • Assorted styles
  • Vegan Friendly, Natural rubber latex


  • No cons to making sex safer!

Teach yourself how to be more present with any lover so you can have deeper connections and understand their physical and mental needs. This book teaches about over forty unique and inviting positions for you to try with a partner as well as tips for success and making sure the positions work for you. Sex positions for beginners as well as Sex positions for the advanced.


  • Gain a deeper understanding of the spiritual and intimate aspects of the Kama Sutra.
  • Teaches how to respect and explore a partner in every sense possible.
  • Includes exciting tips and sex positions to enhance pleasure in any relationship.


Combination lock box with lightweight design and dual carrying handles, is easy to transport wherever you need it, and is specifically designed to fit neatly under most beds. Convenient combination locks provide peace of mind and durable metal corners and reinforced hinges, ensure long-lasting durability and protection for whatever is in the box. What's in the box?


  • Built to last with durable metal corners and reinforced hinges.
  • Convenient portability with lightweight design and dual carrying handles.
  • Specifically designed to fit neatly under most beds.
  • Enhanced security with keyless combination locks, no keys.


  • Not fireproof or waterproof

Portable dual-combination locking security chest measuring 15 x 14 x 17 inches is ideal for locking up anything. This highly mobile cabinet is perfectly sized for BDSM gear and designed with smooth-gliding wheels and a telescoping handle to take with you wherever you go. You'll be ready to roll. Keep it locked in your home away from small children or roommates or use it when moving. Simply set a 3-digit code for each lock and enjoy the benefits of keyless security until you are ready to head out to the dungeon or to visit your play partners.


  • Measuring 15 x 14 x 17 inches, ideal secure storage solution portability.
  • Easy grip side handles plus wheels and telescoping top handle for easy transportation.
  • Dual-combination locking system for added security.


  • Not fireproof or waterproof

A set of toy storage bags in three different sizes made of soft microfiber fabric, designed with a double drawstring for easy opening and closing, and can be used for storing adult toys or other items like jewelry and clothes.


  • Comes in 3 different sizes to accommodate different toy storage needs.
  • Made of super soft microfiber fabric.
  • Features a double drawstring design to prevent items from falling out.
  • Versatile and can be used for storing adult toys, jewelry, clothes, and more.


  • You might need more than one set if you have more than 6 toys that need fancy storage bags

A chair with ergonomic contours and strategically placed curves to create a playground of positional possibilities


  • Made with high-density foam for optimal support and stability.
  • Premium cover is soft, sensuous, stain-resistant, and easy to clean.
  • Take your love making to the next level with this gorgeous piece of intimate furniture.


  • No cons to next level sexual intimacy!

This intimate chaise is great for creative and better positions, also includes wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, thigh cuffs, tethers, connectors, and blindfold for playful BDSM scenes.


  • Better access during lovemaking
  • PERFECT FOR BDSM with built in tethers & connectors to attach the included wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, thigh cuffs, and also comes with a blindfold
  • Removable machine-washable lush microfiber cover with a moisture-proof inner nylon liner
  • Made proudly in the USA, Includes 1 year warranty, Ships discreetly


  • No cons to next level sexual intimacy!
Polyamory isn’t all about the sex, but these 6 sexy gift ideas are!

Idea #1 Waterproof Blankets

For some sexy nights in, waterproof blankets are a must-have. So we’re introducing a mini-collection of waterproof blankets perfect for those intimate moments that may get a little messy. If your polycule is extra large, then you might need the Waterproof Reversible Blanket Furniture Protector, X-Large (85" x 57"), which provides a generous extra large size, ensuring ample coverage for all. 

If that sounds a little big, no need to worry about stains or spills of any kind with the Reversible Fleece Waterproof Throw Blanket - 30x40-Inch. As a super cozy 2 sided throw blanket with added moisture protection, this smaller size is also great for traveling. 

For a touch of luxury, the Liberator Moisture Proof Sensual Throw Blanket (72x54 Inch) is both waterproof and sensually enticing with its luxurious soft microvelvet fabric. Sex blankets are an essential addition to any non-monogamous household, so much so that we probably should have included them on our 6 Gift Ideas for the non-monogamous home guide, but since that guide is a safe-for-work list we saved these for the sexy-time list.

No matter which you choose, these blankets offer comfort, protection, and peace of mind. 

Idea #2 Condoms

When it comes to condoms, Just Poly Things Condoms Buying Guide has always got you covered; with a complete breakdown of different styles and suggestions to choose from. When in search for a sexy time gift, condoms are a great go to that you might not have considered. We love the novelty of all of the different varieties in the ONE Condoms Mixed Pleasures Variety Adventure Latex Condom 100 Pack, and think this item could make an excellent white elephant gift idea, or the perfect gift for – polyamorous couples, triads, throuples, quads, or SoPo’s – anyone who like to throw an orgy and get down for the holidays.

With 100 condoms in the ONE Condoms Mixed Pleasures Variety Adventure Latex Condom 100 Pack, you’ll ensure that everyone involved can be protected and fully enjoy their intimate experiences, but if a warehouse-store size container of condoms is too many for your polycule, try picking out a Variety pack from our Variety Packs of Condoms guide. Gifting a partner with a luxurious new brand or size to try out is a thoughtful and conscientious way to promote safe and pleasurable adventures! 

Idea #3 Sex Positions: Illustrated With Pictures Book

Looking for something new to try in the bedroom that’s not a unicorn? The book Sex Positions: Illustrated With Pictures is a fantastic gift idea. It provides a comprehensive visual guide to examine new and exciting ways to pleasure each other, and is perfect for an ENM/CNM couple looking to deepen their connection and explore their desires together. It will inspire you to try new and different positions, and discover new ways to connect with your partners and deepen your intimacy. Grab a copy now and try something new!

Idea #4 Locking Adult Toy Boxes

To keep their adult toys safe and secure, consider a locking adult toy box. While these heavy-duty lock boxes are really built just for security, and not specifically made for sex toys they are sure to keep your toys locked away from children, roommates, or bratty subs. 

For discreet under the bed storage, we love the Vaultz Storage Lock Box - 6.5 x 23 x 13.5 Inch with its built to last durable metal corners and reinforced hinges. Specifically designed to fit neatly under most beds and with dual carrying handles also making it easy to transport, this smaller box provides a discreet and secure solution.

For a larger storage solution that is also super portable, for taking to a partner’s, meta’s, or the dungeon, we suggest the Vaultz Portable File Box with Handle - 15 x 14 x 17. With dual combination locks to safely store any valuable items, and a convenient portable lightweight design, with wheels and a telescoping handle, this keyless lock box will go with you wherever you need it to. Perfect for discreetly storing your toys, ensuring privacy, and organization, locking toy boxes give the gift of privacy and organization to your polyamorous loved ones.

Idea #5 Adult Toy Storage & Travel Bags

In addition to keeping their toys safe and secure with a lock box, we love the set of 3 Sizes (6 Pcs) Adult Toy Storage & Travel Drawstring Bags for their convenience and portability. Great for travel and discreetly packing adult toys, BDSM gear, or any personal items in your luggage, these no-see-through soft fabric drawstring bags come in three different sizes, with two each, for a total of six pieces in the set. Gift the 3 Sizes (6 Pcs) Adult Toy Storage & Travel Drawstring Bags for their next trip or just for the luxury of keeping their toys nice and organized. While you’re at it, you could also throw in some Adult Toy Cleaner

#6 Sex furniture

For the ultimate in comfort and pleasure, sex furniture is sure to impress, and for those who love to indulge, either the Liberator Kama Sutra Chaise or the Liberator Esse Chaise with Cuff Kit could be a game-changer. These sex-chaise lounges offer a luxurious and versatile platform for exploring pleasure. They are designed to enhance comfort and provide support during the most intimate moments, and would be a generous surprise to your polyamorous partners as an exquisite gift to elevate their sensual experiences.

The Liberator Kama Sutra Chaise - Sensual Lounge Chair offers unparalleled support and versatility, allowing you to explore a wide range of positions and sensations. Alternatively, the Liberator Esse Chaise with Cuff Kit provides an even more luxurious and sensual experience, complete with restraints for added exhilaration. Designed with your pleasure and comfort in mind, these pieces of dedicated furniture elevate your intimate moments to new heights.

Gifts For Polyamorous Couples

We hope that these ideas encourage you to embrace your desires, explore new possibilities, and create unforgettable moments with your partners. Don't forget to tell us about the incredible gifts that celebrate your polyamorous lifestyle that we forgot to mention here. Do you have a suggestion or idea for something that we missed? We’d love to hear from you. 

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